Submitted by 6lack10 t3_11uxxn6 in relationship_advice
Before my boyfriend, I was talking to two other guys and ended up sleeping with both of them after meeting my (now) boyfriend one time. We met, I thought he was nice but was still exploring my other options because I was single and we were not exclusive. We had only met one time by the time I decided to sleep with the other guys. Then, after a few more dates, I decided to cut off the other guys that I was talking to and got closer to my boyfriend. We eventually made it official and I told him a few months later about the two guys. Every since I told him that I fucked two guys while he was talking to me, he’s been really hurt and has felt betrayed.
Last night he went to the club with his friends and got drunk. He ended up going back to his friends house and fell asleep on a mattress. After a while, a girl was on top of him and trying to get him aroused. He tried to push her off and he claimed that he pinned him down. Mind you, my boyfriend is very strong and has actually pushed me across the bed before. He eventually admitted that he did want her to continue and that's why he did not push her off completely. He did try to dodge her kisses but he did let her touch his dick two times. After her trying to get on him, three times, he finally told her that he was uncomfortable and he left his friend’s place.
I'm conflicted and he instantly regrets this event. He keeps mentioning what I did and states that he wasn't in the right mind when he did that. He claimed that he was drowsy and was just thinking about what I did to him so that's why he continued his actions from last night. He mentioned the event lasted less than 20 mins and that he ended up getting up and going home..
Should I forgive him, take a break, or break up with him?
Edit: They did NOT have sex btw. Edit 2: sorry everyone 😟 my original paragraph deleted but I ended up writing it again to clarify any confusions!