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andeezz t1_jeeeu3m wrote

Personally I'm a fan of the discover HYYSA but that's because I also hold a credit card with them so it isn't really wasn't a big deal to open up one for me. The rate isn't the best on the market right now but it's not horrible. Just kind of depends what else you use the account for or if you want to be able to drive to a physical location and take money out

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Scr0bD0b t1_jeeesgo wrote

The owner of the house determines what fair rent is. Probably not 50% of the mortgage but if you're actually going to get married eventually then it won't matter anyways.

Splitting anything based on income hardly makes sense.

The rest is relationship advice, in terms of how you agree to split things. The fairest, healthiest way when married is 50/50 split unless 100% certain agreed not to for a variety of possible reasons.

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alexm2816 t1_jeeeom0 wrote

On one hand it's whatever works for you.

On the other A owns the home and pays all bills, repairs, taxes, insurance and B pays 50% of market rent on the home.

Utilities are split down the middle.

If A wants to reduce the charge because the home would otherwise not be B's pick or because they want to eliminate the 'profit' portion of rent to be affordable that's fine but justifying any lesser s[;ot charges because of income is silly. I don't pay less for milk because I'm poor. Why would I pay less for rent?

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Valendorf t1_jeee2t7 wrote

Not being on the mortgage shouldn’t matter. They’d be renting from someone else if not from them.

Only time I’d see it be a problem is if the owner is trying to make a profit off the other.

If the end goal is to get married (not sure I’d sign a 30 year commitment without it), then would it really matter if “owner is getting equity and I’m not!”?

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kbc87 t1_jeee15j wrote

Health insurance. Any lurkers here please note this. GET HEALTH INSURANCE. You may think you’re in perfect health but you never can predict an accident like this. A week long hospital stay is NOT going to be cheap.

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alexm2816 t1_jeecy7x wrote

If learning and honing your power of hindsight only costs you $6k then count yourself lucky.

Lots of people spend far far more to never learn the lesson of what it is that money can do for them that does make them happy and fill a void and what they do that is just rote action that they do to do.

Spending your limited money on the things that will give you the best utility is what it's all about and no experience is a total loss unless you fail to learn.

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idkalan t1_jeecw31 wrote

You should still be able to contact their customer service with the same login information you used to create the account.

And asked them why they didn't inform you of the "debt" you had with them because even if you canceled your subscription, they should still have sent an email stating that you had a balance due at least a couple times before they sent your account to collections.

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NoFilterNoLimits t1_jeecv8g wrote

The best thing I did for my relationship with money was form a zero based budget. It let me responsibly decide how much I could spend on frivolity without sacrificing big picture goals. It’s a very useful exercise, i highly recommend it.

There are several software options that can help you set it up - or Excel. I use YNAB4, but they don’t sell it anymore. I highly recommend it if you can find a copy online

There are a few similar systems I haven’t tried

r/actualbudget r/AspireBudgeting r/Budgetwithbuckets r/everydollar

The new r/YNAB is subscription based and IMHO, overpriced. There are threads there about alternatives from time to time

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DirtySocialistHippo t1_jeecps9 wrote

Your parents would rather you make less money than take the step towards higher pay? I don't understand this about a lot of folks, especially parents. A higher salary job isn't going to just fall into your lap. You need to make strategic career moves, including physical ones, to advance your career. I understand everyone's situation is different. But the argument that moving out offsets the salary increase is moot once you realize that the cost of living will always increase and your pay will remain stagnant unless you make these jumps. But barring physical disabilities where children may be playing caretaker roles, parents cannot be stunting their adult children's growth for the sake of feelings. I also can't imagine how it affects one's mental health to be working from their parents' home 100%. Good luck in this new endeavor! You've earned it!

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CircaSixty8 t1_jeeck5r wrote

A 90-minute round trip daily commute is 7 ½ hours a week. That's a full work day. On top of which you're losing a day off by working 5 days instead of 4.

Plus, you're going to end up spending about 50 extra dollars a week on gasoline. Not to mention all the extra money you are going to spend on lunches.

If I were you I would not take it and try to find other ways of making extra money instead.

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