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wanttostayhidden t1_jeblbj2 wrote

>got rid of it right before the big expenses hit

Had an '08 Civic that I sold 2 years ago when it had 178,000 mi on it. The only non-routine maintenance thing I had to fix on that car was a $200 sensor. It made it another year before the kid I sold it two totaled it.

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oledawgnew t1_jebklh5 wrote

>DMV is defintlely not going to give legal advice on how to settle an estate.

Probably not but I'd definitely start there before spending money on a lawyer. Besides OP isn't looking for advice on how to settle an estate, just want to know options on getting rid of a car that's titled to a deceased person. If DMV can't help the only thing lost is time spent on the phone. In the county I live in we have a very good DMV that falls under the tax office.

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Ahluongo t1_jebk3yu wrote

Have you looked into the trades or becoming an apprentice? You’d get paid to learn and have a lot of optionality once you’re out of your apprenticeship.

Also, another thought would be to explore using the degree you have and jump into a job that will train you.

Last thing, explore! Check out various careers/jobs, talk to people, try and fail at some jobs and see what happens. You have a lot of options here and I wouldn’t necessarily take on debt for a job yet. You’re planning for retirement, which is great! Don’t saddle yourself with unnecessary debt.

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TrafficScales t1_jebk1px wrote

As a software engineer I’d like to caution against this perspective a little bit… it’s certainly possible now to build a career and network through fully-remote positions (especially if the entire company is fully-remote), but for mixed/optional WFH positions I have seen extreme and obvious career benefits for people who are friendly/social/helpful in the office.

It’s not so much that remote employees are at a disadvantage in software positions, but more that in-person employees have the opportunity to capitalize on being in-person, which can go a long way.

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buildyourown t1_jebjjpm wrote

It's antiquated boomer middle management talk to say nobody can work from home because you don't think they will work. That's not what I'm saying at all. Relationships exist in every job in every industry. When people blame nepotism, what they really hate is that somebody got an opportunity they didn't. When I need to hire someone, I ask around. "Do you know anyone who would fit this role". Etc. Maybe it's someone you play golf with. Maybe it's an old coworker. You don't make those connections at a wfh job.

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Vegetable-Delicious OP t1_jebj11n wrote

Thanks. 2.8k here is including utilities and others here. I found one at Santa Clara for 2.4k. Seems to have what I am looking for. It is less than 3 miles to my office. I could look for apartments farther away but I fear not being close to my other friends and I’ve heard the traffic there can get quite annoying. This is a big decision and I am quite scared for sure.

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Xaihe t1_jebizqg wrote

To be honest, it is not the military's job to educate you about retirement accounts. They are there to fight wars/keep the peace.

Any adult, military or not, should be able to learn at a very minimum the basics of investment.

Sorry, it just rubs me the wrong way when people complain about things that aren't legitimate. Any new accession nowadays is taught enough about the BRS and TSP to get them started.

We as adults should have educated ourselves long ago, on our own. Just wait until you get out and see how much the military did in fact hold your hand for.

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shipwreck17 t1_jebiih5 wrote

Meh, to me a 2015 Honda with 72k is a new car. I usually buy them between 50 and 100k. My daily is a 2008 with 185k and I autocross it. So while it does get frequent fluid changes it doesn't have an easy life. If u want a new car ok but the personal finance answer is keep your car. Upgrading is profitable for the dealer, not you.

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