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Buck_Thorn t1_jbqtavr wrote

https://www.twincities.com/2023/02/15/st-paul-historic-justus-ramsey-house-disassembled/

I fully realize that 170 year old building is nothing in much of the world, but here it is the beginning of our history. Sad. At least they are preserving the building, but it just isn't the same when the context has changed. And for what? Hamburgers. Hamburgers and beer.

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Bender3455 t1_jbqsy7y wrote

Every single person on the planet has their own struggles, their own battles, their own disadvantages to overcome. While I do not have black skin, I had to deal with my own struggles getting to where I am. I don't downplay other people's struggles, perhaps you should do the same.

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TheRealNobodySpecial t1_jbqs2ji wrote

>I want you to slowly think about the difference between what a black woman tells her children and the connotation of a white person telling a black child

So only a person of a certain race can comment on their adopted child's appearance?

Who is the racist here, u/sprint6864???

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Bender3455 t1_jbqq5dg wrote

What I believe is backed by a Master's Degree, 2 successful businesses, recognition as a local leader and advisor in the community, as well as my upbringing in a lower middle class family, going to school in an inner city magnet school, and my personal findings on how to create personal success.

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heyitsxio t1_jbqpt60 wrote

Hi, transracial adoptee here. Most non adopted people really do not understand adoption or our issues. We can love our parents, appreciate that they were trying their best, and yet have complicated feelings about our adoption and upbringing. I wish that non adopted people could let go of the idea that adoption is a “good thing” and that adoptive parents are saviors. Perhaps then there wouldn’t be all this outrage over over Colin Kaepernick said.

I’m kind of surprised that this is brand new information to anyone, since this was a plot point in his Netflix show. I have to assume that he’s already had this conversation with his family and he’s not pointlessly attacking anyone. My mom admitted to me as an adult that she wished she’d done more than “not see color” when raising me, and I think that any adoptive parent who is honest with themselves can admit that adoption isn’t always peaches and cream.

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plumzki t1_jbqnigb wrote

Here in the Netherlands the are countless companies doing exactly this, we don't have a car but if we need to drive somewhere there is a car parked about 5 mins from us, we use an app to unlock it so no fucking around having to get it from somebody else, just jump in, do what we need and drop it back off. For a short trip this might cost us 10 to 15eu

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Loose_Consequence_26 t1_jbqnbbb wrote

So the problem with what you keep banging your head against is the definition of what is acceptable as a black man was not determined by black hair. It was a deliberate strategy to force you into a more white mold. And even the more strict requirements back in the day were often more strict for black people. Any job where hair length was an issue when your hair grows out rather then down often meant your were subjected to random definitions of to long was. Your manger changes and they declare your hair which was fine on Friday is now unkempt on Monday. HR wouldn’t back you. It’s why even today as you seem to think standards are less there os legislation being passed to protect said hairstyles.

What you want to believe isn’t backed by reality.

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