Recent comments in /f/newhaven
wal9000 t1_j9m8y6b wrote
Reply to comment by nerbm in Undergraduate arrested after YPD finds firearm, illegal drugs in dorm - Yale Daily News by jphazed
> Interviewer: How do you explain this 4 year gap on your resume?
> Me: That’s when I went to Yale.
> Interviewer: That’s great! You're hired.
> Me: Thanks. I really need this yob.
Slave_IV t1_j9m442f wrote
Reply to comment by kryonik in DnD GM for rent? by kryonik
I've only ever dabbled in tabletop RPGs, but DMing is a lot of work and if you want someone good/experienced, you'll probably have to pay them a bit for their patience and labor. Especially since the pandmic started it has become a skill that is being increasingly monetized https://www.polygon.com/22525941/how-to-hire-a-dungeon-master
paddyboombotz t1_j9lv3qw wrote
Reply to comment by rossiterpj in Rental for person in recovery & just out of jail? by bedpotato2019
I dunno I think it varies person to person. My friend got out the joint and I got him a restaurant job and he’s been on the straight and skinny ever since. Going back to school, got a girlfriend, etc etc. For some people, you might be the only support system they have. I know for my friend, I was.
Icy-Following-3713 t1_j9ltbnd wrote
Reply to comment by bedpotato2019 in Rental for person in recovery & just out of jail? by bedpotato2019
oh ok.. thats fucking terrible. honestly i think she should go to a sober living house first. i know they have them in new haven, bridgeport, stamford
bedpotato2019 OP t1_j9lpa7u wrote
Reply to comment by Icy-Following-3713 in Rental for person in recovery & just out of jail? by bedpotato2019
No, because she isn’t being released early. She called it EOSing? Apparently because she is no longer the responsibility of the Department of Corrections - they don’t put her in a half-way house (or help with housing in anyway).
nerbm t1_j9lf5wf wrote
Reply to Undergraduate arrested after YPD finds firearm, illegal drugs in dorm - Yale Daily News by jphazed
From Yale to jail.
Treat_Zealousideal t1_j9ldthh wrote
Reply to comment by kryonik in DnD GM for rent? by kryonik
I am not sure. I haven't gone yet to the Tabletop night. I just saw the promotion when I was there.
kryonik OP t1_j9lbsae wrote
Reply to comment by Treat_Zealousideal in DnD GM for rent? by kryonik
Good for people with 0 experience other than cultural osmosis?
Treat_Zealousideal t1_j9l9dqr wrote
Reply to DnD GM for rent? by kryonik
Armada Brewing in Fair Haven does Tuesday Tabletop Nights where they play RPGs and card type games. Worth a look, especially considering they make some really good beer!
kryonik OP t1_j9l7fa9 wrote
Reply to comment by MattFantastic in DnD GM for rent? by kryonik
Okay I'll ask them if they're up for something like that.
6th__extinction t1_j9l5ws5 wrote
Same in Edgewood / Boulevard area
Icy-Following-3713 t1_j9l5ghc wrote
she should go to a sober house first. she needs time to adjust, which is something they dont prepare us for when we are released. are they making her go to a halfway house first or no?
choanoflagellata t1_j9ky0q7 wrote
Reply to Undergraduate arrested after YPD finds firearm, illegal drugs in dorm - Yale Daily News by jphazed
I find the fact that Yale Police always send sthese notifications a week after the incident really patronizing. Even "timely warnings" get sent 3-5h after the incident occurs. They are not useful after the fact. Their goal is to save the university face and quell any panic, not to genuinely keep us informed in a way that would allow us to make our own decisions about our safety.
elmcityboy t1_j9kuyr7 wrote
Reply to Best secondhand furniture? by superduperdumper
new england reuse in north haven is worth checking out! it's a pretty similar to the habitat restores.
also, it's a little more expensive and boutique/vintage-oriented, but monger's market in bridgeport is always worth the trip on a sunday.
[deleted] t1_j9kslnc wrote
Reply to comment by rossiterpj in Rental for person in recovery & just out of jail? by bedpotato2019
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rossiterpj t1_j9kr8i4 wrote
She needs to go to a sober house. If she wants to have her own space that badly, she wants to use. There are plenty of opportunities for addicts to get help. They have to want it.
My advice to you is to lovingly disengage. Don't give her any money. Don't research for her. Don't do anything that relieves her of her own personal responsibility. Involving yourself is only going to lead you to pain.
MattFantastic t1_j9kn49w wrote
Reply to DnD GM for rent? by kryonik
Ugh, 2 shill posts in a week for me… check out Elm City Games. We have new players all the time in our organized public games. If you want to do an intro session as a group we can arrange that as well. All of this costs money though, so may or may not be the right fit for you.
paddyboombotz t1_j9klbsn wrote
Reply to comment by Objective-Lemon2565 in Rental for person in recovery & just out of jail? by bedpotato2019
I mean you could, but it’d prolly be in a shittier neighborhood where a former addict would face temptations. I remember when my friend got out of prison, I would drive him to his methadone dose appointments and there would be guys waiting on the curb right outside the place trying to sell him dope.
Objective-Lemon2565 t1_j9kf5lv wrote
Reply to comment by paddyboombotz in Rental for person in recovery & just out of jail? by bedpotato2019
Is it hard to find something for about 1,000/mo in new haven?
(BTW, props to you and OP, you sound like good friends and good people.)
paddyboombotz t1_j9kcefx wrote
Yeeesh for that price range I’d just get her out of new haven. My friend was in the same situation minus the stealing and I found him a place in derby for cheap.
Observant_Neighbor t1_j9jwad0 wrote
Check the local pawn shops and/or scrap yards. Many property thefts are taken for a quick buck. Property inventory laws at pawn shops have moved sales to scrap yards. It can't hurt.
Also, look close. Bad actors aren't taking this out of town.
mverzella t1_j9jsveh wrote
Reply to Soccer for 3 year old by JPW_88
Google "Soccer Shots in Ct" Its supposed to be a good program!
One-Awareness-5818 t1_j9jpys1 wrote
Reply to comment by superduperdumper in Best secondhand furniture? by superduperdumper
Wallingford one has a Facebook, they post items on it so I guess that is a good place to keep an eye out for anything interesting
CatSusk t1_j9jo3ri wrote
Reply to Best secondhand furniture? by superduperdumper
Not a store, but Facebook Marketplace usually has good stuff.
wal9000 t1_j9m9l0n wrote
Reply to Husky-Friendly Apartments in New Haven by ahpsychology
There were a lot of dogs in Strouse Adler (PMC Property), I don't remember huskies specifically but it didn't seem like there were restricted breeds.
Not the most upscale building in town, but also not a slumlord like some of the big property companies in the area. Wooster Square is nearby and has a lot of people walk their dogs there. It's not a huge park though, a husky might be better off up near East Rock if you can find a place.