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priyatequila t1_jdbjviu wrote
Reply to Interesting Globe article about how DCF avoids going through the courts when they take custody of children by dazzlingupstairz
oh my God. I remember coming across this story around August or so on Twitter. the mon or a close relative had taken to sharing the story of their children being taken from them by DCFS and took to Twitter after they got nowhere through normal channels. hearing how the kids were taken so quickly, without legitimate reason, WERE NOT CARED FOR in state custody, and how the welfare of the kids and the truth of the story were both pushed aside due to the mess that is our public health system was saddening and maddening.
quote from the article in Reason: "It seems everything was deliberately timed to avoid having to get a court order and avoid proving to a judge that the children were in imminent danger," Perkins later wrote"
the end of that quote links to one of the original Twitter threads. I remember following it for a month or so and not knowing what happened (I think I eventually had to stop checking for updates due to my own sanity).
also, iirc, the mom (or maybe a close friend/relative?) worked in a field that made them semi more familiar with the court system, or they knew someone that had 1st hand knowledge and could help them through. and even then it was a literal nightmare, and their kids could've been in custody for 1 year and there was nothing they could do about it. it's significantly more difficult for the majority of people who get unfairly pulled into the system, as they don't have assistance with first hand knowledge.
how do you fix it? there's so many children who are mistreated by their families who don't get on the radar. and the problems with dcfs, being in "the system", being in foster care.... I can't even get started with that.
dazzlingupstairz OP t1_jdbj13t wrote
Reply to Interesting Globe article about how DCF avoids going through the courts when they take custody of children by dazzlingupstairz
Video of the a cop and some social workers showing up at 1:00 AM on a Saturday
Good thing Friday just ended and courts aren't open until Monday. After returning the child from the hospital? For more than a day? It's hard to not think that they're just abusing the emergency powers that they have.
They gave the family ZERO paperwork when they first took the children out. They literally had no documentation that their children were taken by DCF. Not a scrap. No names. No signatures. No documented reasons as to why they're doing it. Nothing.
Tufts by the way. Harvard too.
MGB too.
Newton Wellesley.
dazzlingupstairz OP t1_jdbh2za wrote
Reply to Interesting Globe article about how DCF avoids going through the courts when they take custody of children by dazzlingupstairz
The aunt of the father tweeted this (cited in the articles, not just a random person on twitter).
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Wednesday updates: My nephew and his wife were able to read why CPS felt that the boys were in "imminent danger" (CPS says that has to be believed to do the child extraction). And remember, this is after the pediatrician vouched for them, and the hospital released the baby.
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There were 3 reasons listed:
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- "Living in a neighborhood with not enough children." This is straight up punishing parents for not being rich. My nephew and his wife chose a "poor" neighborhood because they are trying to save up for a house, and it was convenient to their work.
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- "The mother rolled her eyes when asked a question." Want to know what the question was? Here you go: "How often does your husband neglect his children?" I mean... I would have 100% rolled my eyes. What a manipulative thing to ask.
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- The last "evidence" was that "the mother cried when they wanted to give the baby another blood test." CPS said, "Her crying indicated that she was guilty." Keep in mind, they had already done 12 tests on the baby! And he was distressed by it!
If even a fraction of that is true, then what the fuck?
- Something you might be interested to know: As soon as the judge ruled against DCF, DCF promptly asked for a gag order against any discussion of the case with the media. But their request for a gag order was denied (except for the actual court records).
What the fuck?
Can anyone explain this to me? What's going on with Harvard/Tufts and DCF?
js80856 t1_jdbgp56 wrote
You'll know in mid April when they release the tax stuff but it's probably fanduel and draftkings in that order.
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f0rtytw0 t1_jdbaizt wrote
Reply to comment by sharpe_af in THE ESCALATION IN SOUTH STATION IS WORKING!!!! by K_Gal14
Replace all the trains with escalators
BeerLeague_Biznasty t1_jdb8caz wrote
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The24HourPlan t1_jdb75xs wrote
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cocktailvirgin t1_jdazekm wrote
DraftKings certainly has the best ad with the Dropkick Murphys-like soundtrack, the old guy from Southie shilling, and the 20-something hours before gtting wasted at Lincoln Tavern yelling "Woo-hoo!" in response.
As for betting purposes, I neither follow sports that closely nor want to burn through my money, so no clue.
SgtPapa t1_jdaym5t wrote
The ad agencies
SocaWarriors t1_jdayiw1 wrote
Which one do you work for sir?
frankenplant t1_jdaszqk wrote
oh man this was my reaction when the escalator at Davis was finally fixed last year
vrivvey t1_jdasiey wrote
Now THATS a situation
sharpe_af t1_jdamts7 wrote
Reply to comment by dyqik in THE ESCALATION IN SOUTH STATION IS WORKING!!!! by K_Gal14
☠️☠️ crying right now
sharpe_af t1_jdamqyy wrote
I pray one day the T will too.
dyqik t1_jdaj0j5 wrote
Well, that escalated slowly.
Bostonstrangler69 t1_jdaif6r wrote
Reply to Cannabis regulators putting out ‘a series of fires’ involving a Russian oligarch and data breach by jillbarkham
Weed is over-regulated in this state.
zz23ke t1_jdahvot wrote
Reply to comment by amilmore in Cannabis regulators putting out ‘a series of fires’ involving a Russian oligarch and data breach by jillbarkham
Ahoy'
Young people all around the world are joining up to help!
TakenOverByBots t1_jdah8dm wrote
Finally, no more going down the sketchy hallway to the elevator!
anurodhp t1_jdaecol wrote
Reply to Cannabis regulators putting out ‘a series of fires’ involving a Russian oligarch and data breach by jillbarkham
Of course russian organized crime is involved in weed in this state
Interesting-Soft1398 t1_jdadvyp wrote
Reply to Dress emergency by samlicious1602
Anthropologie
Coggs362 t1_jda905o wrote
Hmm is the mezzanine dining area opened yet? It's a bloody miracle, but I'm still holding off on celebrating.
blondiegirl1012 t1_jda7mnb wrote
Wow the wonders will never cease.
likezoinksscooby t1_jda53b4 wrote
It’s all about those small victories.
That said, what’s the over/under on how many days until they break down again?
dazzlingupstairz OP t1_jdbkt8e wrote
Reply to comment by priyatequila in Interesting Globe article about how DCF avoids going through the courts when they take custody of children by dazzlingupstairz
>How do you fix it?
You make it illegal to take children out of homes with no due process. You establish criteria DCF must meet, and DCF must meet it. Unless DCF has firsthand knowledge that child will imminently be harmed, then none of the emergency bullshit. They clearly have gotten used to playing by their own rules.
You have a Judge available 24/7 365 to review warrants. And as often as possible, they are reviewed in person, and recorded for future reference.