Recent comments in /f/Maine
Grape-Snapple t1_je56ww1 wrote
Reply to comment by 781irishkehd in ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
in maine everybody thinks that when you start number with 781 you mean 207-781 your name just reminded me
kintokae t1_je56q0z wrote
Reply to comment by cwalton505 in Would be really cool if we built something like this in Maine by Bigchungus-vore
Will look really nice until that oversized tractor trailer goes under it and smashes up the underside of it.
781irishkehd t1_je56fez wrote
Reply to comment by hike_me in ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
Yeah I’m from Malden, so I’d love to know this ,too young to of known about this place
120sandy t1_je56es0 wrote
Reply to ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
It means show some empathy and quit being a dick
ScienceWitch92 t1_je55lkg wrote
Reply to comment by wise_owl68 in ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
The breakfast of Splinter
[deleted] t1_je55iki wrote
Reply to comment by fatalrugburn in ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
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MrFittsworth t1_je55iih wrote
Reply to comment by DontXpectCompnsation in Where do Single People in there 20s & 30s meet each other in Maine? by [deleted]
I had a lot of really positive experiences on tinder. I got my dog through a connection where we remained friends. I got a new car because a girl I was seeing at the time had a sibling selling hers cheap. I've wound up in really inexpensive apartments due to parters, and like I said, my fiance.
Tinder is like most things, you get back what you give. Sure there were some awkward days, but typically that happens even at work or just existing anyway. It's not nearly as bad as it seems at face value imo.
Dogsbottombottom t1_je55cvp wrote
Reply to comment by tegrtyfrm in ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
Hippies = people with emotions?
ScienceWitch92 t1_je55coe wrote
Reply to comment by tegrtyfrm in ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
TIL advocating for mental health/emotional regulation makes you a hippy.
200Fathoms t1_je554be wrote
Reply to comment by SullyZero in ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
Damn. Take your medal.
EdSmelly t1_je5514s wrote
Reply to ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
Stoic advice 👍
Qaaarl t1_je54wyu wrote
Reply to comment by Guygan in ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
With existential spread, please
AnchoriteCenobite t1_je54nqx wrote
Reply to comment by lol1231yahoocom in ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
I'm not sure about CBT but DBT (which is related, I think) is definitely based on ideas from Buddhism, so that makes sense. I think psychologists have been trying in several ways to bring the wisdom of the Buddhist approach to emotional regulation into a Western context for awhile now. (Btw if the Buddhist nun is Pema Chodron, her works are some of my favorites!)
King_O_Walpole t1_je54ftm wrote
Reply to comment by Automatic-Raspberry3 in Maine Lobstermen could face new size limits for catch by stewart0077
It’s not the lobsterman who lan their catch, it’s their laws allowing bycatch lobsters to be landed . That’s why boats land there over ME
BeeBeeScars t1_je54c4g wrote
Reply to comment by hike_me in ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
Wtf please drop the name of that bagel shop for me, I need to research this.
wise_owl68 t1_je54a4c wrote
Reply to ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
Master Bagel
jewishexgirlfriend t1_je540pw wrote
When you need a bridge but there's extra money in the budget
CosmicJackalop t1_je540gk wrote
Reply to comment by tegrtyfrm in ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
Hippies are great
IStealWaffles t1_je53izd wrote
Reply to Second milky way shot of the year! by killcnr
Looks like I've just found my new desktop wallpaper! Looks amazing!
DontXpectCompnsation t1_je53iov wrote
Reply to comment by MrFittsworth in Where do Single People in there 20s & 30s meet each other in Maine? by [deleted]
I met my wife of tinder lol. But I don't look back on the swiping with any kind of fondness. I actually had already stopped swiping to preserve my mental health and my now wife messaged me out of the blue after I swiped on her long before she did me.
When it goes well its nice to look back and say its not too bad but I had so many weird, uncomfortable situations before I met my wife. I had a girl try to aggressively to set me up with gay friend because I had a "gay vibe" Or another girl who pretty much opened with a story of her sexual assault. Its out there.
Not to mention my wife and I matched during the pandemic which what when everyone, even "normal" people were on Tinder.
Timfromfargo t1_je53i20 wrote
Reply to ???? .... by Zestyclose_Ad3983
I like it
geaibleu OP t1_je537vm wrote
Reply to comment by Bjorn__Ironside in Old/discount produce near Bangor? by geaibleu
That's good advice, i will ask around farms.
dedoubt t1_je535cy wrote
Reply to comment by raggedtoad in Would be really cool if we built something like this in Maine by Bigchungus-vore
>"It was just a few fireball nips..."
Which isn't even really booze.
geaibleu OP t1_je533xx wrote
Reply to comment by Doc_coletti in Old/discount produce near Bangor? by geaibleu
No problem
HiggityHank t1_je57epc wrote
Reply to comment by Guygan in Would be really cool if we built something like this in Maine by Bigchungus-vore
Comes in way before billion dollar flagpole though.