Yes, people want to non-stop put shrimps on my barbies... ;)

Did anyone offer to put a shrimp on the barbie for you?

Mmm juicy question. Look I believe I fell into the sex industry at 18 after experiencing a lot of childhood trauma and abandonment. I was also in a sexually abusive non consensual relationship for 3 years as a teenager. Basically being raped. I believe that girls who end up stripping or fucking for money have fragmented boundaries. I wanted validation sexually for some reason...

Ive done extensive spiritual and emotional healing work on myself since the age of 24, so nearly 9 years. I would really hope that my future daughter would not have the desire to gravitate to that industry. That being said, if she does, then I would support her and not make her feel any shame about the choice to become a stripper or escort. I would encourage her to have multiple streams of income and do stripping along with another job. Or start her own business and do both for a while.

With 430 million monthly Reddit users, I'm not too worried about anyone identifying little ol strippy, slutty me ;))) just saying.

If, in the future, your daughter wanted to strip would you encourage or discourage it and what advice would you give?

I don't want to see proof

Don't worry, you're allowed to use the word "dregs" here

how else would you like to see proof??

The worst/ grossest would be the 10+ guys I danced on after they had pissed their own pants.

The most heart warming thing.. Mmmm maybe just the camaraderie amongst the girls. I still feel like the sisterhood in the sex industry is pretty strong compared with other industries. Despite the competition. I also met some great men who were short term regulars, who I really liked. I went to Cambodia with one on an extended party holiday.

Interesting answer. Thanks!

Guess you didn't view her post history.

Baha thats a technical question but I would love to know if you find out.

haha no worries. Yes I can see how people would think its the opposite. I think tho that as you get older as a women, you get naughtier and more confident.

Thats a good question and i think if differs from girl to girl. When I first started stripping at age 18 I did leave the club with a couple clients. I had sex with them for money and it was quite a bad experience. Like i was out of my depth leaving the club and i didnt have the boundaries to be like 'OKAY TIMES UP, IM GOING'. I also got drugged and raped in my early 20s under the pretence of an unofficial escort job.

After that I focused on JUST being a stripper. After I retired I had a little stint of JUST being an escort, not stripping in clubs. That went well, because I was much older (30s). I think escorting is better for mature women. I dont think its a great job for party girls in their 20s who dont know their boundaries. Because once your on an outcall or at someone's house, its easy for them to start dictating how the situation is going to go. You have to have really strong boundaries and REALLY have your shit together to consistently deal with real life escorting.

That being said, at my age now, I know a bunch of girls who have been in the industry for 15 years. Since they were 18 to late 30s. Many of them are strippers and escorts. They do both. They do a mix of work where they're working privately and through agencies, so they just do everything. In my history, Ive concentrated on one type of profession at a time..

Not that I don't believe you I just find it funny that your proof is a picture of a calendar from a strip club from 2012 lol. Even if it's not true horny dudes will believe anything so you have nothing to worry about.

That's interesting that it turned you on in the later years and not the early ones, I might have guessed the opposite. Cause of yeah, the desnsitization. But the truth is way hotter. XD thanks for the response.

When you do a pole dance, do you spin the opposite direction of strippers in the northern hemisphere?

Whats the worst/grossest/weirdest thing you saw and the most heart-warming thing you saw during work?

In the last few years the actual stripping turned me on. So if I hadnt worked in 5 days or a week and I started taking my clothes off, I would get turned on. Towards the end of my career I also worked in a very loose club somewhere rural. I was getting up to all kinds of touching mischief there... I was pretty turned on. Im sure a customer made me come, or I made myself come on the customer. I would occasionally get so turned on at the start of a night i would go to the toilet and make myself come. Then come back and work a bit more seriously.

Ive had plenty of guys also come in their pants from me grinding on them during a dance. I've also danced on guys soaking wet from drink spills. Also danced on guys that have literally pissed their pants and dont realise.

For the first 5-7 years I was very robotic. If you're working night after night you get desensitised. You also dont get pleasure as its just clothes on, clothes off, relentlessly for 9+ hours.

Is it true that stripping is the slippery slope to escorting or things evolved from the time where it actually was like that?

So obviously for the people that enjoy going to the strip club, its a very sexy thing. Presumibly they think it's sexy. Did it work the other way around though? Was there ever anything sexually pleasurable about being the one stripping? I've always assumed that like... usually not? Not that it would be a bad thing! Just an assumption. but thats something I've always wondered about the profession.

After using paint stripper do you go through a HAZMAT style disposal?

Eg cheeky strip/ cheeky fuck for money.

Haha. Um well we call them 'lappies' for lap dances. And even today amongst the girls we refer to any kind of sex work or stripping as 'going for a cheeky'. If you're enquiring with another girl about her work, the language would be, 'how's cheekies going?'

yup this is the lifestyle. i was a bouncer at a club for a bit and was amazed at how alot of the girls were always broke. than i figured it out quick. most had vices. lol.