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INtoCT2015 t1_je4sy0z wrote

Exactly. For example, Ali never partied or drank alcohol, and talked about how much better it made him than his opponents bc it allowed his body and focus to stay laser sharp. To Ali, partying and alcohol were a pebble in his (and his rivals’) shoes. He removed them so he could remain unworn in the pursuit of his goal.

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kinnyhoggins53 t1_je4s46f wrote

Do whatever it is you want to do relentlessly. If you quit, that's on you. If people fucking with you bothers you enough to make you quit, also on you. You seem like you're already in your own head (no offense) so just will yourself to do it buddy. My dad called it testicular fortitude lol. Best wishes going forward.

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HeftyAd2698 OP t1_je4q9e3 wrote

1000% agree.... " Self pity is the quicksand of the mind"... thanks for this... I really needed that... I was having a pity party this morning and really had to scold myself to stop it already... coz once it starts... it is never ending...

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kinnyhoggins53 t1_je4onac wrote

Forget about people you went to school with and bullied you. They don't matter going forward. You are in control of your life, and I promise that you are ahead of alot of people your age. Self pity is the quicksand of the mind. Never quit pursuing happiness

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Newmach t1_je4mykt wrote

I think the message here is that great goals can only be achieved it you accept problems as part of the process and remove them instead of ignoring them. Keeping the eyes on the price only would contradict that.

Also to deal immediately with the issue as they otherwise might become bigger over time, maybe even to a point preventing you from your goal.

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Coffee_Receptacle t1_je4iacm wrote

I normally don’t like to go through someone’s post history, but this story seems suspect. 5 months ago they were looking for a place to travel to “forget about their life” and now suddenly they have a thriving music career? Unlikely. People spend years building a career and never making any real money.

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