what can they say? you need to hit the gym? you're in the gym

E: Wow! Thanks kind stranger

Now that’s borderline treason

Amen. I needed this now, have been struggling with my weight, got laid off but it's ok. Thankfully have savings so I'm taking time off to just focus on myself and working out. Then going back to a different career, my old one of 22 yrs was literally killing me mentally.

So wise, so insightful, so sure of herself. Big wow

u/shayjames108

I dont really like this mentality because it makes you work just so that you can show off to other people who at the end of a day dont give a fuck about you and dont like you. You might impress them for a minute or two and then they will forget about it and go on about their day. Just do it for yourself and for a better life, haters will hate no matter what you do.

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So get plastic surgery so nobody k owns who you are?

Thats me. I put my headphones on and do my workout. I am there for myself I don’t care about what anybody else is doing.

Unless they don’t re-rack their weights, then I will judge.

Yeah, but my wife and daughter would probably be upset if I just peaced out for some self-work...

Thank you. Very well written

If there was anyone to ever get through this life with their heart still intact, they did not do it right.

I did this over the quarantine, and everyone got really mad at me.

Not sure how its gonna work with girlfriend and kids. Theres a lot to work on as far as by myself, but in this case, we both (girlfriend) and i need it

Overweight people get judged the instant someone sees them. Obviously no one vocalizes this anymore, but it's there. If you make responsible choices with your diet, you almost certainly won't be overweight. You don't even have to exercise. I wouldn't even go to the gym if I was massively overweight. I'd just cut my caloric intake in half for a month first

Andy Bernard did that, and it was the worst character arc in the show

How do you avoid telling yourself that nobody wants you when nobody does?

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This was me. Put a load of weight on during pandemic. Met a girl who ghosted me at work.

Went away for 3 months, came off social media, lost close to 40lb. Went back boxing and got back to amazing shape. Got the inevitable apology from the girl who now wanted to start talking again.

Life has never been better. Its now been 6 months since then. I've met somebody amazing. Had a promotion and hopefully will compete in the sport again soon. I'm still not on social media and it feels freeing.

there are those who need people to be against them. dont engage too much, as they aren't seeking mutual exploration on the topic, just reiterating that they feel alone. I hope the person who said u were hypocritical gets the healing they need

That was the plan. Not sure if I abandoned it or if I’m still in the “work on yourself” phase but I’ve been enjoying it

why return at all?

false. scars are meant to be healed using healthy food, herbs and rest.

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do not smoke because you think it's cool or because you think you have to act tough towards other people.

I had 2 friends now i jave nil 😭😭😭