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Just remember that so much of personal growth actually happens best with people. If you need to step away to transform, please do. But also know that transformation is also possible with others. The trick- being choosy about who gets to be in the group.

Love the message OP, just don’t want people thinking they necessarily have to cut out everything to improve. For some, yes, but not for all.

Acid works wonders on facial disfiguration.

This is why I take personal days..

Sucking at something is the first step to being sorta good at something!

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Truly!!✊✊✊

Sometimes they are just the right thing for certain people.

[ laughs in lifelong trauma and betrayal by everyone around me ]

Yup.... I don't care where you are in your path towards a healthy lifestyle.. your working towards a better you....good job...and I do try and help people when I see them trying to figure out machines, or if they're doing something that could cause injuries

What bugs me...If you are sitting on a machine playing on your phone...

And a few guys today were working out right in front of the weight rack so no-one else was able to get weights...

Have some basic etiquette, other people are waiting for that machine.. there are tables in the lobby for you to play on your phone...I asked a guy how much longer he was going to be....he responded "10-15 minutes"....on the one machine... Look I'm here to work out...

What does it mean to “disappear?”

lol i disappear by forgetting i have a phone

A t a gym I went to, the overweight guy was also a powerlifter. He benched and squatted huge weight.

you get judged for goofing off, for hanging on the machines, for wearing full make up and jewelry, for yakking on your phone while sitting on a bench. Not for being out of shape.

Don’t waste time. Learn to manage your money. Don’t be afraid to try anything once or face anything. Humble yourself. Alcohol and drugs and anything addicting never does anybody anything good. There are obviously many many more!

Fear is a liar

Small changes, long time frames! You can do the things you want to do!

you need a bit of both. growth, and chilling.

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The last thing my dad said to me on my birthday days before he died of cancer was “You can do whatever you want.”

He was trying to tell me that I was still alive and healthy and was capable of attempting my wildest dreams while here on earth while in his fragile state.

I miss him.

Planning to do exactly this for a bit spend waaaay too much time seeking validation from other people

The advise I like to give is heavy people Are going to the gym to lose weight. The skinny people are going to the gym to put weight on. Either way everyone is going through the same battle. Everyone starts somewhere.

Didn't literal millions of Americans do this over the past three years?

The toddler will find his own way