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Chomusuke_99 t1_jc7kooo wrote

hard disagree. the first is easy. the second step is the hardest: consistency. everyone joins the gym in Jan 1 but few follow up. everyone watches a youtube tutorial to learn a skill but few invest time and effort to actually learn it.

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keeerman13 t1_jc7ka34 wrote

Except for a few places and people, folks in the gym would be happy to see you come in and learn and get better. To me, there is nothing more inspiring than seeing someone try at something they are not good at.

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Prize_Huckleberry_79 t1_jc7b64c wrote

“I’m so grateful for this mouthful of cavities, bare cupboard, broke ass car, getting fired yesterday, sciatic nerve pain, and my broken clothes washer”…..

Yea ok…So grateful….

What makes you think everyone has access to food or water and has a roof over their head? What makes you think a roof over your head is reason to be grateful when your L3 pain is so bad you want to die? This quote is meaningless…

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ManliestCheese t1_jc78wh3 wrote

I understand what you're saying, but there are much better ways to word that than this post did.

You're saying "be happy with what you've got" but that only applies to people that have the basic conditions for happiness that then lost sight of it in pursuit for more.

This generalisation doesn't work as well as the post, which says anyone can find happiness if they just look hard enough. Someone living in absolute misery can not simply turn a switch.

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09232022 t1_jc77eu1 wrote

There's a lot of hate here, and probably justifiably so, but this is actually (worded slightly differently) a core of Buddhism. The belief that our attachment to things is what actually causes misery is relatively fundamental, even if that attachment is to things like food or health. There's a lot more nuance to it than that, but it's the gist of it.

I can totally see how from an outsiders perspective this is 100% a "thanks I'm cured" moment.

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Mindfullmatter t1_jc6wfh3 wrote

It’s not meaningless, it’s about being grateful for what you have.

It’s easy to become dissatisfied with your current situation, that’s why it’s essential to practice being grateful if you want to be happy and feel fulfilled. That’s why they say money doesn’t buy happiness. Humans easily fall into a mindset where they always want more. We also compare ourselves to others who have more.

If you have a roof over your head and access to food and water. That is a lot to be grateful for.

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austinmulkamusic t1_jc6j4ee wrote

It's stating that the irony of our flaws is that we can't see them while others can. We are all delusional to our own flaws, yet see others as though they were wounds on their faces. The irony is, if we were able to see ourselves from an outside perspective (or look within us as the poem suggests) the pain of our realization would save us.

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